“My love is infinite…my time and resources are not”. On cakes and poly. – _Raine_ – FetLife

Found this on Fetlife as written by Raine.  
A great read and comes highly recommended by moi.

https://fetlife.com/users/112339/posts/2863827

Love hard peeps,

Shane

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Just when you start to doubt…

Along comes something like the below and voila, all yours fears get pushed back into their respective dank little mind-holes!

Thanks to Perth Polyamory for posting this gem.

http://jezebel.com/mom-i-have-two-boyfriends-how-i-discovered-i-was-poly-1690634624?utm_campaign=socialflow_jezebel_facebook&utm_source=jezebel_facebook&utm_medium=socialflow

This woman has walked the road I want to walk with women, but finding that other woman is quite the difficult proposition.

Seriously, I hope you read and love this article.  Just like when I started reading The Ethical Slut, it just made sense.

Until then fine women and men,

Love it until you cant love anymore.

Shane

 

Sexual omnivores?

Are we designed to be sexual omnivores? http://t.co/cZ5AGxE0cc

Christopher Ryan & Cacilda Jethra wrote a book called ” Sex At Dawn” a few years back.

It’s a great book and whilst I haven’t read it all I do recommend it to anyone interested in human sexuality as I am.

The TED talk above is by Mr Ryan and is great appetite wetting video that might see you venturing further into the book as I have.

Anyway, have a look and make your own mind up.
And if you want to make contact please leave a comment or if you are in the area drop by a Meetup.

I’m attending a Meetup with Peninsula Polyamory and Open Relationships Meetup http://meetu.ps/2CmmTj

Until then fine homosapiens,
Love many,

Shane

Jealousy.

@hlpleasurecoach: Zen and the Art of Dealing with #Jealousy http://t.co/AFhD4KGlBn

Ahh yes…the green-eyed monster that will take your rational mind from you in a matter of seconds and potentially put you in all matter of strife.

What to do?

Some good advice in the link above but for mine I think age and experience is the best weapon that arms you sufficiently such you will be able to stop and breathe and put those wonderful cortexes into gear.

Just saves one from having to step back after and acknowledge idiocy, not to mention the collateral damage that might have been done to others you love.

The minefield of life is always around…just waiting for a slip up.

But until you find yourself there again,

Please, try to love many,
Shane

So why form a polyamory group anyway?

I have asked myself this but I figure it’s high time alternatives to the version of marriage I have seen start to find a place of their own to exist.

I wrote previously on marriage and my respect for the word but that is where it ends.

Yes it works well for some but in all honesty I would love to see the truth on those marriages and why they work because I think you would find a similar type of arrangement one might see in a great poly relationship(s).

There is nothing worse in my opinion than not having the courage to speak up for your own needs and instead sneak around behind your beloveds back.

That is the primary reason why poly may never really take hold because honesty is hard work and just like democracy and teamwork are works in progress that never really reach a conclusion.

That doesn’t mean for one second that one should just accept the status quo and get on with being a sheep.  Quite the contrary really.  At least that is what I think.

It takes courage to believe in something like polyamory and I do because in my opinion it reeks of sense.

So if you want to expand your mind and educate yourself out of the flock you can’t do much worse than pick up the book that changed it all for me.

Then maybe you will drop by our little group and who knows what will happen then…but that’s half the fun!

Until that time, please,
Love many,

Shane